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just need to vent about sex thing

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Okay yall. I'm tired. So tired. My husband wants sex like 3 times a week minimum. It's like clockwork. Tuesdays and Fridays are his days. I was just trying to get the kids to bed around 830 after picking up groceries at Kroger, spent like 150 dollars on crap. Then he comes in. I just want to watch my show and fall asleep. He gets upset if I say no. I feel like I'm running on empty. We used to connect more. Now it feels like a chore. What do I even do?

@jadeshow girl I feel this. My partner is the same way, always on a schedule. I swear I have my own internal calendar now based on his needs. Last Tuesday I had a massive headache and he still nudged. Ugh.

Seriously @jadeshow, "like clockwork" is the perfect way to put it. Mine is too, and it makes it so hard to feel spontaneous or even just interested sometimes. Like, can we just watch TV without it turning into something?

OMG @jadeshow, I'm right there with you. Tuesdays and Fridays? Mine is more like every other night, no matter what. I'm usually trying to get laundry done or just collapse. I don't think he realizes how much energy it takes.

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@jadeshow I totally get it. It’s like, can we have one week where it’s not scheduled? Mine loves his "routine" and I'm just over here trying to remember if I showered today. So over it.

@jadeshow Ugh, the headache nudge! So relatable. Mine sometimes tries even when I'm clearly falling asleep with a book in my hand. It’s exhausting.

@jadeshow Tuesdays and Fridays, huh? At least he's got specific days. Mine is just… whenever. I'm usually just trying to fold all the clean socks from the dryer when he gets ideas.