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Quote from wildsoul on April 9, 2026, 8:53 pmdont miss it. i am 46 and my husband and i have been together 20 years. we stopped doing all that fake excitement years ago. now we just chill. watch tv, eat good food, talk about bills. it is peaceful. the honeymoon phase is exhausting. you spend all your energy trying to impress someone. i rather be comfortable and know he is not going anywhere. save your energy for yourself.
dont miss it. i am 46 and my husband and i have been together 20 years. we stopped doing all that fake excitement years ago. now we just chill. watch tv, eat good food, talk about bills. it is peaceful. the honeymoon phase is exhausting. you spend all your energy trying to impress someone. i rather be comfortable and know he is not going anywhere. save your energy for yourself.
Quote from Kathleen1981 on November 10, 2025, 11:08 amhey girl same here. my doc said everything is fine but i still feel like i got dragged through a rug every morning. just take it easy on yourself. maybe eat some more fish and rest. dont force urself to do too much. we all know how hard it is but ur body needs time. hope u get some rest soon. big hug to u.
hey girl same here. my doc said everything is fine but i still feel like i got dragged through a rug every morning. just take it easy on yourself. maybe eat some more fish and rest. dont force urself to do too much. we all know how hard it is but ur body needs time. hope u get some rest soon. big hug to u.
Quote from PeacePath on March 14, 2026, 4:13 amgirl if he cheated dont even look at him twice. honest he wants attention not love. i wouldnt even reply to him. like really? you broke my trust and now you want skin contact? gross. just block him and go get a fresh manicure. we dont settle for that nonsense. be serious with yourself. he can take his ego with him. no contact is the only move here trust me.
girl if he cheated dont even look at him twice. honest he wants attention not love. i wouldnt even reply to him. like really? you broke my trust and now you want skin contact? gross. just block him and go get a fresh manicure. we dont settle for that nonsense. be serious with yourself. he can take his ego with him. no contact is the only move here trust me.
Quote from Capelicense on March 13, 2025, 5:47 pmhonestly yeah. i do it all the time now. usually happens after foreplay when im just so exhausted from work. my partner jokes about it but doesnt mind. we just cuddle and fall asleep together. its cozy and honestly the best part of the night for me. no pressure to perform just rest.
honestly yeah. i do it all the time now. usually happens after foreplay when im just so exhausted from work. my partner jokes about it but doesnt mind. we just cuddle and fall asleep together. its cozy and honestly the best part of the night for me. no pressure to perform just rest.
Quote from linda1968 on January 7, 2025, 4:04 amgirls i get that too. not gonna lie i think its just sitting at work all day plus the heat. i started wearing compression socks n keeping my legs up when i watch tv at night. helps a lil bit but tbh its just annoying af. prob nothing serious but if it dont go down after a few days u should see a doc just to be safe. idk maybe drink more water too
girls i get that too. not gonna lie i think its just sitting at work all day plus the heat. i started wearing compression socks n keeping my legs up when i watch tv at night. helps a lil bit but tbh its just annoying af. prob nothing serious but if it dont go down after a few days u should see a doc just to be safe. idk maybe drink more water too
Quote from Scaleepic on January 26, 2026, 2:56 pmOye girl same here omg. After those 3 hours meetings my knees feel like jelly seriously. I swear its the chair or just sitting too long. I literally stand up every 20 mins to stretch if I can. If not I just ice them later at home. Painkillers dont even help sometimes. Its super annoying but yeah normal for us. Take care of your self!
Oye girl same here omg. After those 3 hours meetings my knees feel like jelly seriously. I swear its the chair or just sitting too long. I literally stand up every 20 mins to stretch if I can. If not I just ice them later at home. Painkillers dont even help sometimes. Its super annoying but yeah normal for us. Take care of your self!
Quote from Margaret1984 on March 12, 2026, 8:40 amgurl i feel u. my mum literally sat me down to eat lunch day 1. now she just drops food outside door. i watch netflix till my eyes hurt then nap. family is loud so i wear headphones. just survive. eat good. let em spoil u for now. even if it sucks. u get back to normal soon enough. hang in there sis.
gurl i feel u. my mum literally sat me down to eat lunch day 1. now she just drops food outside door. i watch netflix till my eyes hurt then nap. family is loud so i wear headphones. just survive. eat good. let em spoil u for now. even if it sucks. u get back to normal soon enough. hang in there sis.
Quote from Swiftwren on June 14, 2025, 4:46 amit is 11 pm and the house is dead quiet. my husband fell asleep on the couch at 930 pm with the tv still on. i just did laundry for the fourth time this week because the kids spill juice everywhere. i went to target today for a $2 cereal box and spent $80 on stuff i do not need. now i am sitting here drinking rooibos tea but i cannot relax. the air feels heavy. why does my home feel so cold and empty when my whole family is literally in the other room? i tried lighting a candle from ulta but it did not help. i just feel so drained. is this normal or am i just crazy?
it is 11 pm and the house is dead quiet. my husband fell asleep on the couch at 930 pm with the tv still on. i just did laundry for the fourth time this week because the kids spill juice everywhere. i went to target today for a $2 cereal box and spent $80 on stuff i do not need. now i am sitting here drinking rooibos tea but i cannot relax. the air feels heavy. why does my home feel so cold and empty when my whole family is literally in the other room? i tried lighting a candle from ulta but it did not help. i just feel so drained. is this normal or am i just crazy?
