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kid has fever again and i have to go to work tomorrow
Quote from Softsimile on September 14, 2020, 4:49 amit is 2 am and leo has a fever of 102.5. i just took his temp and he is burning up. i feel like such a failure because i have a big meeting tomorrow morning. i bought tylenol at cvs yesterday for twelve dollars which felt like a steal but it is not helping much. i made him chicken soup and he only drank two spoonfuls before crying. i am so tired my eyes hurt. i cannot sleep because i keep waking up to check his forehead. my husband is out of town for work so it is just me. i feel guilty for even thinking about leaving him with my mom but i literally cannot afford to miss work this month. the rent is due on friday and i am already stressed about the bills. does anyone know what to do when you are the only caregiver and the kid is sick right before a work day.
it is 2 am and leo has a fever of 102.5. i just took his temp and he is burning up. i feel like such a failure because i have a big meeting tomorrow morning. i bought tylenol at cvs yesterday for twelve dollars which felt like a steal but it is not helping much. i made him chicken soup and he only drank two spoonfuls before crying. i am so tired my eyes hurt. i cannot sleep because i keep waking up to check his forehead. my husband is out of town for work so it is just me. i feel guilty for even thinking about leaving him with my mom but i literally cannot afford to miss work this month. the rent is due on friday and i am already stressed about the bills. does anyone know what to do when you are the only caregiver and the kid is sick right before a work day.
Quote from wildflower1986 on September 29, 2020, 10:34 pmim not really finding god atm just trying to survive the heat and my kids driving me crazy. honestly praying feels like work lately. i just make my coffee sit in silence for ten minutes. thats it. sometimes that quiet time is enough for me right now. dont overthink it. just breathe.
im not really finding god atm just trying to survive the heat and my kids driving me crazy. honestly praying feels like work lately. i just make my coffee sit in silence for ten minutes. thats it. sometimes that quiet time is enough for me right now. dont overthink it. just breathe.
Quote from Bold1990 on December 24, 2020, 7:32 pmhola girl. i get it. after my daughter was born i felt the exact same way. like my body belongs to everyone else but me. i just tell him i’m not in the headspace. we cuddle or watch telenovelas instead. no pressure. your body is yours, dont force it. take all the time u need. we’ll get there when ur ready.
hola girl. i get it. after my daughter was born i felt the exact same way. like my body belongs to everyone else but me. i just tell him i’m not in the headspace. we cuddle or watch telenovelas instead. no pressure. your body is yours, dont force it. take all the time u need. we’ll get there when ur ready.
Quote from Meeklyfern on February 13, 2021, 10:51 amNot weird at all. Honestly, I miss making his coffee and folding his shirts way more than I miss the actual relationship. The drama was exhausting. The routine was peaceful. I still wake up reaching for the iron sometimes. It’s just quieter now. I’m learning to be okay with my own company instead of filling the space with someone else’s nonsense. It takes time but the calm is worth it.
Not weird at all. Honestly, I miss making his coffee and folding his shirts way more than I miss the actual relationship. The drama was exhausting. The routine was peaceful. I still wake up reaching for the iron sometimes. It’s just quieter now. I’m learning to be okay with my own company instead of filling the space with someone else’s nonsense. It takes time but the calm is worth it.
Quote from truehoar on August 21, 2021, 12:01 amsister same here. my body feels heavy like lead but rent dont wait. i take paracetamol and keep typing with shaking hands. dont tell boss, just push through. if u faint who will pay bills? drink ginger tea if u can find time. we survive not because we strong but because we have no choice. take one day off max then back to grind.
sister same here. my body feels heavy like lead but rent dont wait. i take paracetamol and keep typing with shaking hands. dont tell boss, just push through. if u faint who will pay bills? drink ginger tea if u can find time. we survive not because we strong but because we have no choice. take one day off max then back to grind.
Quote from budsimile on March 1, 2021, 9:04 amdamn that is so disrespectful. i would literally throw his phone across the room right then and there. i dont even care if he says he didnt talk to her. the fact that he matched is the betrayal. i would pack a bag and leave that night. zero tolerance for that kind of shady behavior. hope you have the strength to walk away because thats not love.
damn that is so disrespectful. i would literally throw his phone across the room right then and there. i dont even care if he says he didnt talk to her. the fact that he matched is the betrayal. i would pack a bag and leave that night. zero tolerance for that kind of shady behavior. hope you have the strength to walk away because thats not love.
Quote from rosepaw on September 29, 2021, 4:04 pmomg yeah its totally normal. mine be feelin like jelly for like two days after i hit them squats hard. i just keep walkin around my apt to get the blood movin and take ibuprofen if its really bad. dont skip leg day tho dont u dare. i swear if i rest too long it gets worse lol. just push through it bestie you got this
omg yeah its totally normal. mine be feelin like jelly for like two days after i hit them squats hard. i just keep walkin around my apt to get the blood movin and take ibuprofen if its really bad. dont skip leg day tho dont u dare. i swear if i rest too long it gets worse lol. just push through it bestie you got this
Quote from SkyTide on January 21, 2021, 8:56 ami totally get it. some days feel like weeks. i just go to the gym three times a week and try to nap when the kids come over. helps a bit. my knees hurt bad when the rain comes but i keep moving. its just life i guess. hope u r ok too.
i totally get it. some days feel like weeks. i just go to the gym three times a week and try to nap when the kids come over. helps a bit. my knees hurt bad when the rain comes but i keep moving. its just life i guess. hope u r ok too.
Quote from Sunny1964 on September 21, 2021, 6:10 amthree years is forever honestly. i’ve been off apps for two years now. my tribe taught me patience is good but not sitting around waiting for magic. i go to classes and meet people through friends. if he can’t commit in that time he’s just using the app for ego. stop waiting. keep living your life.
three years is forever honestly. i’ve been off apps for two years now. my tribe taught me patience is good but not sitting around waiting for magic. i go to classes and meet people through friends. if he can’t commit in that time he’s just using the app for ego. stop waiting. keep living your life.
Quote from Clayditch on November 28, 2021, 12:12 pmYeah honestly. Hubby snores so loud i just give up after a while. We make out sometimes but that is about it. I think at our age it just is not the main event anymore. We hold hands and watch tv which is nice enough. Dont stress about it. My body just aches too much for anything wild.
Yeah honestly. Hubby snores so loud i just give up after a while. We make out sometimes but that is about it. I think at our age it just is not the main event anymore. We hold hands and watch tv which is nice enough. Dont stress about it. My body just aches too much for anything wild.
