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Quote from Kimberly783 on September 25, 2019, 10:01 amUgh, dating. I went out Friday, met a guy from that app, you know the one. He was late, like 20 mins. We went to that new Italian place downtown, the one with the fancy pasta. He spent the whole time talking about his crypto. Didn't ask me anything. Then he made a big deal about the bill, like it was 80 dollars. I just wanted to go home and watch that reality show. Is it always like this? Am I doing something wrong?
Ugh, dating. I went out Friday, met a guy from that app, you know the one. He was late, like 20 mins. We went to that new Italian place downtown, the one with the fancy pasta. He spent the whole time talking about his crypto. Didn't ask me anything. Then he made a big deal about the bill, like it was 80 dollars. I just wanted to go home and watch that reality show. Is it always like this? Am I doing something wrong?
Quote from Calm1961 on September 26, 2019, 12:50 pm@Kimberly783 Ugh, being late is the worst. I've had that happen too, makes you feel like they don't really care. Hope the pasta was good at least.
@Kimberly783 Ugh, being late is the worst. I've had that happen too, makes you feel like they don't really care. Hope the pasta was good at least.
Quote from winetime1966 on September 27, 2019, 9:14 amHonestly, the whole app thing is what gets me. It feels like such a chore to swipe and then still end up with someone who is rude. I just want to watch my shows.
Honestly, the whole app thing is what gets me. It feels like such a chore to swipe and then still end up with someone who is rude. I just want to watch my shows.
Quote from braveheart2002 on September 30, 2019, 3:41 amI know exactly what you mean about the app. I downloaded one last week and already feel like I'm over it. I just want to read my book in peace.
I know exactly what you mean about the app. I downloaded one last week and already feel like I'm over it. I just want to read my book in peace.
Quote from Whisperglen on September 30, 2019, 10:23 pmYeah, the lateness is a big red flag for me. It's just disrespectful. Did he at least apologize properly?
Yeah, the lateness is a big red flag for me. It's just disrespectful. Did he at least apologize properly?
Quote from KindDawn on October 3, 2019, 6:20 am@Kimberly783 Oh no, late AND rude? That's a double whammy. Makes you wonder if they even bothered to read your profile. So frustrating when you're trying to have a nice time.
@Kimberly783 Oh no, late AND rude? That's a double whammy. Makes you wonder if they even bothered to read your profile. So frustrating when you're trying to have a nice time.
Quote from softcotton on October 4, 2019, 11:18 pm@Kimberly783 I feel you on the app exhaustion. It's like a second job sometimes. All that effort just to find out they chew with their mouth open. Pass.
@Kimberly783 I feel you on the app exhaustion. It's like a second job sometimes. All that effort just to find out they chew with their mouth open. Pass.
Quote from Kim99 on October 7, 2019, 8:18 pm@Kimberly783 Seriously, the apps. I tried one and immediately felt like I was back in high school trying to pick out the least awkward person. My couch and a good book sounds way better.
@Kimberly783 Seriously, the apps. I tried one and immediately felt like I was back in high school trying to pick out the least awkward person. My couch and a good book sounds way better.
Quote from Needleequivalence on October 10, 2019, 12:45 am@Kimberly783 Lateness is a dealbreaker for me too. It shows a lack of consideration. Did he even offer a decent excuse or just shrug it off? Ugh.
@Kimberly783 Lateness is a dealbreaker for me too. It shows a lack of consideration. Did he even offer a decent excuse or just shrug it off? Ugh.
Quote from boldhope on October 10, 2019, 4:14 am@Kimberly783 Ugh, the app exhaustion is SO real. I'm with you. My current hobby is binge-watching baking shows, much more rewarding.
@Kimberly783 Ugh, the app exhaustion is SO real. I'm with you. My current hobby is binge-watching baking shows, much more rewarding.
